The Mystical Alchemy of Love: A Transformation Beyond Looks

Christel Payseng
2 min readMay 30, 2024

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It turns out that when you truly like someone, their appearance — regardless of whether they fit your previous “type” — suddenly becomes remarkably attractive. Your former preferences, be they for mestizo chinito or Spanish mestizo, dissolve into insignificance. Even if they are the polar opposite of your usual taste, they become beautiful in your eyes.

This revelation renders it futile to fret endlessly about your looks. Sure, it’s beneficial to work out, visit the spa, and enhance your appearance, but do it for your own well-being. Striving for a healthy lifestyle and achieving your ideal weight are commendable goals, but these efforts won’t magically increase your worth to someone who doesn’t genuinely love you.

Love operates on a different, almost mystical level. It stands far above mere induced attraction. The right person — the one destined for you — won’t need any convincing of your perfection. Their brain and heart will conspire to convince them that you are worthy of their love, without any external persuasion. They will be ready for you.

The essential lesson is to learn to appreciate yourself. You are already enough, just as you are. Embrace your unique self, and the right person will see your true beauty effortlessly.

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Christel Payseng

Writer, PR Media, Literature Hobbyists, Digital Marketer